So now Zen was their leader and "egged them on." It's all Zen's fault. She started it, she egged them on to go too far. Totally not true. If I'm wrong, hoffies, prove it.
She went too far in emailing and possibly calling PG's DH, but she didn't start it, and people didn't continue with it because Zen was egging them on. Total B.S.
Oh, and how did you get "turned into a bad person," Kathi? Read all the threads about you trolling that Zen c&p-ed from the Hoff board. Your actions have not been good.
You'd love for this to be dropped, because now everyone knows you're not the little angel you claim to be. Own up to the things you've done.
Date: 11:32 AM
Add to FriendsIgnore
Report as Violation
Send to a Friend
A Hoffie with an autistic child misunderstood Stef's statement and took offense to it.
I said I wasn't coming back to this thread and yet here I am - feeling like I have to defend myself. That statement is totally untrue. Steff made some really mean comments about all children with autism and specifically mine. She gave lame apologies later but never took back what she said - she made some sort of an apology like - I'm sorry if you are offended but I am not going to take back what I said - sorry that is not an apology. I was not the only one offended by this.
I am not a bad person. I do not dislike Steff. I only hope and pray she never has to deal with what I deal with on a daily basis.
We did not form the other board to talk about people here - just to be able to chat and get to know each other better.
We had a lapse in judgement when it came to Steff because we were all seeing red and we were being egged on by someone with a different motive then the rest of us. We never posted a link to Steff - that keeps getting brought up - we only followed a link provided in her own profile and links from there.
None of us are bad people. I'm not saying I'm a saint, but I really am not the horrible person that you make me out to be and I'm sure Steff is not a horrible person either.
Please - can we just let this go?
Not that anyone cares, but I am sitting here crying right now because I do care what others think. I wish I didn't but I do. I am human and I do hurt.
I have gone out of my way to help lots of people on this board and on babycenter in general. If you have a question about eating gluten free or growing an organic garden I am always there to help. How did I get turned into a bad person?
Please - give Kim her Christmas wish and drop this.
Andy 12/20/99 - adopted, autism and celiac disease
Visit my blogs: http://kathi-mygarden.blogspot.com/ & http://kathi-gfcf.blogspot.com/